Fill the Manger
The emphasis here is that kindness toward our neighbor pleases the Christ Child (and to cultivate that virtue). Each time a family member is thoughtful toward another, the deed is
written on a piece of paper which represents hay. Then it is put into an empty crib. Each kind act softens the bed for the Baby.
Any kindness qualifies and can be written by anyone. We take special care to discuss being helpful and sweet to other family members. Sometimes this is the hardest!
At times, we even have to point out opportunities.
*Cut strips of white or tan paper. Be sure they are large enough to be written on. 1/2" x 6" is a good size to try first.
*Place them in a bowl or container. Put this in a prominent spot. Ours is in the center of the Advent wreath.
*Situate an empty crib in a very visible spot, say on or near the dining room table. The crib has to be large enough to hold many pieces of "hay." We used an old wooden doll cradle
and just last year switched to an actual Baby Jesus crib. Other possibilities include an empty draw, a wash tub, a wooden crate (cheap at any crafts store).
*Throughout Advent, encourage everyone not to forget the Baby. Each needs to be alert for opportunities to be kind.
*You can review the acts of kindness anytime during the Advent season. This fosters an attitude of gratitude and appreciation for others.
*On Christmas Eve, carry the crib to the Christmas tree or manger scene in a ceremonial procession. The Baby Jesus is placed on the soft bed of "hay." Sing carols.
*You can save all the good deeds as keepsakes. A more formal finish to this activity is to ceremonially burn the papers on January 6, the Feast of the Magi. (Tie this in with the Old Testament offerings.)
Angels (aka Krist Kindl or Secret Santas)
"This custom helps us prepare for the "coming" of Christ by seeing and serving Him in others." (Rev. Msgr. William J.Peters) The emphasis for this activity is on giving of oneself and is appropriate for any group of people. Draw names of family members, friends or co-workers, but don't tell anyone who draws who. (Parents can help the very little ones, of
course.) This devotion should not be an expensive project. Material "stuff" is fine, of course, but this activity should help us find other ways to give. Focus on what will please Jesus.
Frequently throughout the next few weeks, do something, any act of giving, to remember your person. Do some detective work. Concentrate on what would make the
other especially happy. The possibilities and surprises are endless.
Speak a kind word
Send an encouraging handmade card
De-ice his car and any and all other kind deeds
Do his chore
Leave a steaming mug of her favorite drink on her desk
Place a favorite prayer on his pillow
Pray for him and write a note to tell him
Give a homemade gift
Finally at Christmas, the Angels reveal themselves. Small gifts can be exchanged.
